Nothing to be sorry about, zen. I talk to J.A.F.O. all the time. As a matter of fact, just 5 minutes ago over at HA. He has never been sarcastic or inconsiderate of anybody in all the time I've known him, and I have no reason to assume he has changed by becoming a member here. If he was, rest assured that Slow-dazzle and Jock, administrators of HA, would not have appointed him to the position of Global Moderator. Keep in mind, he may know PamAm personally, or had experiences with him in the past in another forum.